About Us
Depending on your situation, you may or may not experience a "One Minute Wonder". But nonetheless, the methods we use are the fastest and most effective means we've found to help transform limiting beliefs (and therefore the painful realities they create) into habits, beliefs, and neural pathways that are supportive of your intentions and well-being. Following is a little background on our coaches. For more on our philosophy, check out "Was Einstein Wrong?" We look forward to helping you to make the shift!
Lily Alexander, EFT-Adv, offers life coaching with
Lily's journey began when she started having severe and debilitating headaches in childhood. The list of challenges built from there, including social anxiety, tension, depression, skin problems, fibroids/cysts, PMS, poor circulation, and etc. Due to the pain and discomfort of those conditions, she ended up (reluctantly, at first) on a path of self discovery and healing. In 1981, her first step on the journey was at the Stress and Pain Control Clinic in Palo Alto, CA (originally part of Stanford University). There she was first introduced (through biofeedback) to the concept that her thoughts were capable of influencing her body (and, therefore, creating her headaches). As she changed her thoughts/beliefs/attitudes (and, therefore, her perspective and energy), her symptoms started to resolve themselves. Her experience with finding and resolving the true "cause" of her many issues gives her the wisdom, compassion and insight to easily and naturally assist others on the same path.
Lily specializes in:
self-esteem issues - helping you learn to love, accept and forgive yourself and be around people in a relaxed and confident manner
skin problems - whether from allergic reactions, acne, insects, dry itchy skin, dandruff, eczema, or otherwise...you too can find relief...
anger/resentment - many women in particular, aren't even aware how much they may have suppressed from trying to be "a good girl", "a good wife", and/or "a good mother"
guilt/shame - you don't need to suffer any longer, even if you think you've done something "unforgiveable"
shoulds vs. wants - are you trying to be "perfect" in other people's eyes, and ignoring yourself or your needs? It doesn't have to be this way...
fear of the future - there's not enough time/money/support/love/acceptance... something bad is about to happen...just waiting for the other shoe to drop? You can learn to relax into the present...
muscle tension - do you have rocks where your shoulders should be, or TMJ, or are you inflexible in your body? You can feel ease there...
animals - do you have an animal who is exhibiting physical symptoms of dis-ease, or acting in a way that is problematic for you? Animals are exceedingly receptive to energy medicine and proxy work.
conflict resolution - is there a conflict inside or outside of you that you just can't seem to resolve? The good news is that "It's An Inside Job"...
- fibroids/cysts/uterine/ovarian/menstrual issues - these uniquely feminine areas don't need to be as uncomfortable as we've become accustomed to...
- headaches - whether tension, TMJ, or migraine related, Lily has worked through them all and can assist you in resolving yours...
Lily's extensive background in business (she holds a B.S. in Industrial Technology, has been an officer of a major international risk management firm, has developed several real estate projects, and been an active and successful futures trader) enables her to work with a broad spectrum of clients. She has also been a home-maker, stepmom, and animal caretaker/rescuer, so she understands the challenges of being true to yourself, while also being responsible for handling the needs of others and a career.
Bill Cael, MRET, has been coaching clients since 1985. He is extremely gifted in the application of many techniques including: Body Electronics, Applied Kinesiology, RET, Subtle Vibrational Release Technique, Iridology, Touch for Health, "The Work" of Byron Katie, and EFT. Bill's diverse background ensures that a client receives a customized healing environment that fits his/her specific needs.
Bill has always had a fascination with the body and how it works. As a teen he remembers studying a reflexolgy chart in his room, which is rather extraordinary given his traditional middle class catholic family upbringing. He became the protege of two psychologists in Spokane WA in his early twenties, and that mentoring shed light on the family dysfunction and helped him to start healing. This new understanding led to the ongoing study of alternative healing techniques. His next exploration was with the late Wendell Hoffman in Utah, who was an expert in Radionics. While studying Radionics, Wendell spoke highly of Dr. John Ray and his healing techniques and systems, known as Body Electronics. So Bill went to Portland OR in 1985 to attend the Body Electronics Instructor Training Program and upon completion taught that throughout the US and Canada for 10 years. Within the Body Electronics program, he learned iridology, herbology, and mineral/enzyme/herbal body saturation.
In his continued quest to understand/resolve "causation", Bill found RET. Since RET changes the nervous system and wiring of the brain, he felt confident that he could shift the cause of why and how we create mental, emotional, and physical illness. Along the way, he found and used Touch for Health, which he still finds very useful for balancing the body. Bill has also incorporated EFT and "The Work" of Byron Katie into his skill set, thereby establishing a very broad base to draw from to assist his clients in whatever way they need at the time - whether physical, mental, or emotional.
Bill has great listening skills, which coupled with humor and compassion and all of the above tools, allows him to meet the client wherever he/she is and work from there. This "whole being" approach works with the body and mind to integrate and balance. His clients have come from all walks of life and backgrounds, and have dealt with anything from personality disorders, to health concerns, to people looking to improve performance in some area of their life. He enjoys a challenge and his only requirement is that the client makes a clear commitment to shift.
Bill works with clients in the office and by phone (depending on how body oriented the coaching session is). He finds that multiple condensed sessions like those in his Intensives seem to have a synergistic effect and are, therefore, extremely powerful at speeding up recovery or moving you toward your goals.
